The concept of married men maintaining a relationship with women outside of their marriage is so prevalent throughout history and society that the woman on the side has become known by dozens of different names; mistress and Sugar Baby currently being the preferred terms.

Ironically, the word mistress has two very distinct definitions;

1. A woman who has a continuing sexual relationship with a usually married man who is not her husband and from whom she generally receives material support.
2. A woman in a position of authority, control, or ownership, as the head of a household: “Thirteen years had seen her mistress of Kellynch Hall” (Jane Austen).

Think about it, a woman having sex with a married man while receiving his financial support is synonymous with a woman in a position of authority, control or ownership. History tells us that these two types of mistresses constitute two sides of the very same coin.

Since I’ve never known anyone to have a mistress, but more than a few of my associates maintain Sugar Babies, it’s safe to assume that the latter term has replaced the former. Yet even though the name has changed, the Sugar Baby is as much in a position of power as the mistress as was.

A married man may cheat on his wife, but he will rarely, if ever, cheat on his Sugar Baby. In this respect, the Sugar Baby maintains a position of control. Reason being is that Sugar Daddy knows that Sugar Baby can do what she wants, when she wants to, without asking permission.

If she is charming and beautiful enough to attract him, it stands to reason that there are dozens of rich Sugar Daddies circling nearby waiting to win her favors. The more luscious the Sugar Baby, the more options she has.

It is the sheer design of the Sugar Baby arrangement that empowers the Sugar Baby with irrefutable independence. There is no ring on her finger, she’s taken no vows, and there are no legal ramifications if she exits the arrangement. She has total freewill.

The Sugar Daddy is compelled, not obliged, to keep Sugar Baby content. With this type of motivation as his compass, Sugar Daddy is more innovative in terms of how he keeps his Sugar Baby happy. He’s quick to praise, slow to admonish, and he is generally on his best, most romantic behavior at all times.

The Sugar Baby, inversely, is free to simply be herself. She is whimsical, dynamic, fascinating and of course beautiful. Whether she realizes it or not, she dictates the terms of the arrangement either overtly or inadvertently.

This form of “role reversal” is the rule, not the exception. The concept of the dependant, insecure Sugar Baby holds no more credence than does the belief that alien visitors built Stonehenge.

The modern Sugar Baby carries with her the mistress legacy wherever she goes. She is the embodiment of Cleopatra, Catherine the Great, and Marilyn Monroe, all rolled into one. She is the great motivator behind many powerful men including emperors, kings generals and presidents.

Without the Sugar Baby’s allure of independence, man would not have invented the internal combustion engine, put a man on the moon and of course, developed the Internet to what it is today.

So the next time you see a hot Sugar Baby sitting next to her older, distinguished and of course rich Sugar Daddy in his SL 500, just remember that without her we’d all still be riding horseback.

When you post a profile seeking a Sugar Daddy or a Sugar Baby, the last thing you’re thinking about is a serious, or even permanent, relationship. Most people would be astonished to learn that a freewheeling Sugar Daddy decided to turn his arrangement into a traditional, monogamous relationship. However, for those of us familiar with Sugar Daddy dating, it’s not surprising at all.

A rich Sugar Daddy enters into an arrangement with a Sugar Baby for the sole intention of having good old fashioned no-strings-attached fun and an equal measure of carefree sex.

The atmosphere is relaxed, the sex is spontaneous and there is no “relationship” smothering the male/female dynamic; hence the booming popularity of Sugar Daddy dating websites.

So let’s break it down; what are the qualities that comprise a trophy wife? She’s exceptionally beautiful, socially graced, an expert at looking stunning at all times and a great event planner. She’s also usually considerably younger than her husband.

Hold on, are we discussing trophy wives or Sugar Babies here? By simple analysis, we’re describing both – they are identical except for one minor detail. The Sugar Baby doesn’t have a ring on her finger. That’s the only difference.

Which brings us back to the Sugar Daddy.

Sugar Daddy may not have been looking for a bride when he posted his profile but I don’t know of anyone who was specifically looking for a spouse when they found one. It just happens. And it’s more apt to occur if two people are caught up in a devil-may-care global sex romp than if they are making small talk over dinner at the Olive Garden.

Don’t get me wrong, in some cases Sugar Daddies and Sugar Babies do get married and live happily ever after. But sometimes the process just repeats itself, and the now betrothed Sugar Daddy finds himself going back to the well, reposting his profile and seeking out his next Sugar Baby.

It’s called the Beverly Hills Syndrome, or at least it’s called that now.
 
Have you ever been on vacation and fallen so head-over-heels for a new location that you were CONVINCED you had to move there? The first time anyone goes to Beverly Hills they get hit hard by the ether. There are sports cars everywhere, the restaurants are packed with celebrities and the most mundane woman in the neighborhood is an undisputable 9.5. It’s pretty amazing.
 
Within three days you are sure you could live there and be happy, really happy. But after a month the traffic is starting to get under your skin, the snotty valets are gnawing away at your generally chipper demeanor and the barbecued buffalo medallions at Mr. Chows are starting to taste like chicken McNuggets.

The vacation is over, you’re officially a local.

Sugar Babies make the best trophy wives, without a doubt. But don’t lose perspective after seeing your Sugar Baby twice a week for three months. That doesn’t constitute a three month relationship; it’s actually a three week relationship if you crunch the numbers.

For the sake of balanced journalism it must also be stated that following your instincts will get you further in life than following the pack. If you’re one-on-one with your Sugar Baby for a prolonged period of time, there’s no one else in the picture and the two of you have already swapped house keys – you’re already married.

Regardless of which path you chose just be sure to do it for the right reasons. Beverly Hills is a great place to visit, but do you really want to live there?

So another relationship has just headed down the trash chute through no fault of your own. It just didn’t work out, but maybe you had your hopes up a little more than usual this time, or maybe not. Regardless, are you really ready to jump back on the same horse and lather-rinse-repeat until something finally works? Why bother?

Take a break, regroup, forget about the big picture for at least a little while and just find someone who wants to take care of you. Try something different and you just might get different results.

Relationships are hard, Sugar Daddy dating is easy. Going out and finding yourself a rich Sugar Daddy works overwhelmingly in your favor on several different levels.

If one were to say that people use people to get what they want, they would be branded a cynic. If the same person said that people couple together in order to satisfy mutual human needs, they are labeled a relationship expert. This brand of dating hypocrisy requires no additional explanation.

Your potential Sugar Daddy is prepared to install you at the center of his universe. He is far more appreciative than the last guy you dated and for all practical purposes, he’s probably better for you. Sugar Daddy will take you under his wing and shelter you from the cold, unforgiving world as long as you want him to. You’ll discover what it’s like to have fun again and you may even remember who you really are (loss of self is generally the cruelest casualty of a failed relationship).

Everyone wants what someone else has, which brings us to the second benefit of Sugar Daddy dating after a failed relationship.

The one doing the dumping at the end of a bad relationship never loses momentum because they have already planned their next moves. They pick up their old single life right where they left it (usually not far) and roll on down the road, whistling.

The dumpee, however, is now saddled with down time because they never saw the break up coming. If they don’t navigate carefully and make a couple of critical decisions fast, they run the risk of being the next topic in a Cathy cartoon.

The Sugar Daddy eliminates any and all down time because he is looking to party. He’s got places he wants to go and things he wants to do and they all include YOU. So, by opting out of more dating abuse and making the logical choice to find your rich Sugar Daddy, you’ve gone from eating cherry vanilla ice cream on a Saturday night watching TiVo’d episodes of Heroes to hitting the town in a very big way.

You’re back in the game and anyone who knows you won’t see you sulking. Instead, there will be text messages between your friends, speculating as to who the rich guy is that miraculously came out of nowhere at just the right time.

Best of all, the most effective way to find the man of your dreams is for him to see you in the arms of another man. It’s just human nature.

Here’s why.

After the basics of Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs have been satisfied (food, shelter, acceptance, why am I? a Mercedes, second home and a Donzi) men get a little restless. They begin searching the globe for that last Faberge Egg, a Picasso or two that may have been overlooked at auction and anything else that is rare, expensive and most of all BEAUTIFUL.

The more beautiful, the better. What else is a guy with a load of cash and a ton of free time supposed to do with his life?

His most logical choice is the pursuit of outrageously beautiful women, and the more they cost, the better he feels about himself. All wealthy Sugar Daddies know that the most effective way to rate beauty is to attach a dollar figure to it. The more it costs, the hotter it is. You can’t argue with this kind of logic. I mean, you can, but you’re going to lose.

The reason wealthy men are more than willing to spend HUGE dollars to attract the affections of beautiful women is very simple. You can’t tool around town with the Picasso under your arm. You can’t kick it poolside with the Faberge Egg and as for the speedboat or hot car, once they’re in the marina or parked in the lot no one knows that either are yours.

A woman, a really beautiful woman, is the only true way for a real Sugar Daddy to prove to the world that he is a screaming success. The first class Sugar Daddy knows that when he locks eyes from across the room with another Sugar Daddy of equal or greater status, the decision as to which one dominates the encounter hinges solely on the beauty of the Sugar Baby draped on his arm.

There’s no judge or point system that’s going to dictate which man is the winner and which one is the loser in this confrontation that may last three, maybe five seconds if it goes into overtime. There won’t be a buzzer or a bell, his name won’t be in the headlines the next morning and he’ll never hear his name chanted by the roaring crowd as he spikes the ball in the end zone.

But you had better know that at the end of this clash of the Sugar Daddies each man knows FOR SURE who’s the top dog and who’s just a mutt. You’ll miss the outcome if you blink, so pay attention.

The side of one man’s mouth will curl up ever so slightly in the slyest of grins and the other, defeated Sugar Daddy will look away, shamed. That’s it. It’s over.

So the next time someone tells you that beauty isn’t everything, it’s what’s on the inside that counts, don’t even waste your precious breath setting them straight. Just look them dead in the eye, give them a sly grin and let them seethe with envy because of your scorching hot Sugar Baby.

During tough economic times like these, it is becoming more and more impossible to decipher whether or not Sugar Daddy’s excuses are legitimate. What was once nothing more than a casual concern has escalated into one of the hottest topics up for debate between Sugar Daddies and their perplexed Sugar Babies worldwide.

Of course a little jealousy is normal (and healthy), but how do you know if he is truly busy? Being beautiful is hard enough without having to worry about what he’s up to, and obviously the last thing you’d want is to lose him to another Sugar Baby, who quite frankly may be hotter or more entertaining than you! So how do you know if his excuses are legit?

Every successful Sugar Daddy has to put in the time to make the money. If you doubt his excuse for not being able to see you then do some research (and I’m not talking about the kind where you make harassing phone calls or unannounced visits to his office). During dinner, casually ask him what he’s working on, appear interested and try to find out what has his attention at the office.

Hopefully it won’t be that busty blonde that sits at the front desk! The truth is, you may never know what someone else is up to, but if you feel his excuses start to overlap or if they just seem a bit shoddy, you’ve got to investigate.

Sitting home worrying about losing your Sugar Daddy is never a good thing. You’ve got to remind him why he chose you as his Sugar Baby, and why you never want him to stop being your Sugar Daddy. If during your research you discover that he is lagging because he does in fact have other Sugar Babies it may be time to re-evaluate the arrangement.

But remember, most of all, there are plenty of other Sugar Daddies out there waiting to spoil you!

Myths, urban legends and politics all make for great talk at cocktails parties. Just don’t take any of them too seriously.

Sugar Daddy dating has put more women through college than the GI Bill, it’s given retired businessmen a reason to keep going to the gym, and it’s one of the few sectors of the economy that seems to be recession-proof.

But like any great concept there are bound to be naysayers. Some people just don’t get it and instead of keeping an open mind they find it more satisfying to perpetuate negative stereotypes and misinformation.

These are the same people that told us if you threw a penny off of the Empire State Building it would kill someone and that if the woman stayed on top during sex she couldn’t get pregnant.

Here are a few myths and misunderstandings about Sugar Daddy dating that need to be addressed.

Sugar Daddy Dating is Just Veiled Prostitution

This is one is my favorites because it’s the craziest. Comparing the two is like claiming that watching porn is committing adultery.

Sugar Daddy dating is just that, a form of dating. Whether it’s referred to as an arrangement or an affair, Sugar Daddies and Sugar Babies are doing a lot more together than just having sex. Sure there is sex, a lot of it, but there is just as much partying, hanging out, shopping and traveling.

Last time I checked men didn’t take prostitutes on vacation to Aspen, they didn’t make their car payments for them and they certainly didn’t show them off to their friends.

Sugar Babies Are Gold Diggers and Opportunists

This myth was created by actual gold diggers and opportunists. Sugar Babies are generally young women with a strong sense of self-worth who like to party. Unlike their deceptive counterparts, Saccharin Babies, Sugar Babies put their cards on the table when they meet a Sugar Daddy and spell out exactly what they need in order to make the arrangement work.

Inversely, the Saccharin Baby will hide her intentions and string a guy along with a lot of empty promises. She never comes out and says what she is looking for because she lacks the Sugar Baby’s self-confidence.

Sugar Daddies are Dirty Old Men

I never really understood what people meant by this one since they fail to define what constitutes a Dirty Old Man. Sugar Daddies may be older, sure, but dirty, I don’t think so. This myth is the standard jealousy-based smear campaign initiated by people who would outlaw great sex if they could.

If a guy is north of 50, still has a sex drive and the financial means to attract a hot younger woman, he should get a trophy and The Discovery Channel should do a documentary on how he got so lucky.

Sugar Daddies are generally more polished and sophisticated than they were in their 20’s or 30’s because they’ve got EXPERIENCE. They’re also more appreciative of women than younger guys are.

Sugar Daddy Dating is Degrading to Women

If that’s the case than so is Elle Magazine, Victoria’s Secret models and the stiletto heal shoe.

People can’t be degraded unless they are deprived of the ability to make their own decisions. Sugar Babies do their own thinking, call their own shots and CHOOSE the man they want to tool around town with in the drop top Mercedes.

Degrading is having to work a job you despise in order to pay for basic living expenses or staying in a loveless marriage because you can’t afford to move on with your life.

So have at it Sugar Daddies and Sugar Babies, don’t let myths and misconceptions stand in your way of finding the perfect playmate.

Power to the players.

There’s a new joke going around. It goes something like, “Tiger Woods hit a tree with his car and a bunch of women fell out.”

Sounds cute, but now the poor guy is knee deep is allegations of infidelity with about a dozen Sugar Babies, there’s talk of hush money that he doled out by the wheelbarrow and even speculation that he’s paying his wife Elin Nordegren $5,000,000 just to stay with him. How can this story get any worse? Well it can.

Mindy Lawton, a busty Florida brunette and one of Tiger’s Sugar Babies is quoted as saying that “Sometimes I looked like a rag doll after we’d made love.” She also divulged that Tiger was “well-endowed” and into marathon S&M romps.

As if that weren’t bad enough, she went on to say that “He really did like it rough. He wanted to spank me and loved pulling my hair as we had sex,” she told the News of the World. “He also liked me to talk dirty to him, but hair-pulling was what really turned him on.”

These are details that we can all live without, but that’s not the point. Lawton broke the Sugar Baby code of silence and by betraying her beloved Tiger she betrayed every Sugar Daddy, past, present or future. She also betrayed Sugar Babies as a collective, leaving the world to believe that any Sugar Baby will spill the beans on her Sugar Daddy if the price is right.

How do we move on from here? One step at a time people, one step at a time.

Most Sugar Daddies are not Tiger Woods, and consequently are not nearly as susceptible to exploitation by the media. Secondly, Tiger has to eat a little of the blame here. It sounds like he may have promised his Sugar Babies a little more than he could deliver.

More than one of Tiger’s Sugar Babies was convinced she was going to be the next Mrs. Woods. Whether he really lead them on or not is difficult to say. But even if he did make some shaky promises in the heat of the moment, that still doesn’t give any Sugar Baby the right to break her vow of silence.

When a Sugar Daddy affiliates with a Sugar Baby he has the same expectation of confidentiality as when he deals with his an attorney, psychiatrist or barber. What goes on in Sugar Daddy land, stays there, or at least it’s supposed to. However, with the aforementioned debacle in mind, it’s important to make sure your Sugar Baby truly understands the code of silence she is supposed to maintain, whether you two are together or not.

Sugar Daddy Soundproofing

The term “gag order” is a little harsh, so we’re going to refer to Sugar Daddy confidentiality as “soundproofing.” The best time to start process this is at the beginning of the arrangement. Get started on the right foot so you don’t have to change direction after things are rolling. Be prepared to ask the tough questions.

For instance, “Honey, if you found out I was dating a dozen or so other Sugar Babies, would you go to the press or release a YouTube video about our sex life?”

Sure, there’s maybe a few different ways to couch this question but it does get the point across. You can tell by Sugar Baby’s answer if she’s going to hold up under interrogation at a later date. If she can’t give you a straight answer or you see that her pupils have dilated (nature’s way of telling you you’re in danger) it may be time to find a more discreet Sugar Baby.

Sugar Baby’s response to this question should be rather unemotional, borderlining on tepid. She has to be able to look you dead in the eye without even the slightest hesitation, and assure you that whatever transpires between the two of you, no matter how twisted, she is willing to take it to the grave.

People are people, and when feelings get hurt everyone has the impulse to lash out. The question is whether or not we act on that fleeting impulse.

In closing, confidentiality is a double edged sword, it cuts both ways. However, rest assured that the Sugar Baby code of silence is not dead; it’s just a little bruised.

25,000 B.C., Tuesday

Cave paintings discovered in Lascaux, France depict two cave men. The first one is being berated by his unruly cave wife for being a lousy hunter and the second one is draped in animal pelts, surrounded by adoring cave hotties (also draped in animal pelts) who are ambitiously working to satisfy his primitive Sugar Daddy needs.

Ironically, a second set of cave paintings from the same region depict the aforementioned disgruntled cave wife living large in the upper west side after her divorce attorney got through shellacking her non-pelt-providing cave husband.

134 A.D., The Golden Age of Rome

Roman Emperor Antoninus kicks Sugar Daddy dating up a notch when he commissions the city’s top engineers to invent the hot tub, the smoking jacket and Vodka. Following in his steps future Emperors go on to pioneer the creation of the convertible, the American Express Platinum Card, the cigarette holder and Jello shots.

922 A.D. Feudal Japan

Japanese men realize that the guy who can afford the best rice wine and fish heads is the same one hogging all the best women. They band together to form an elite ruling class called the “Sake Daddies” and vow to win these women back by showering them in silk robes and pearls – the Geisha is born!

The Sake Daddies also hire artisans to carve thousands of small ivory sculptures in order to immortalize their exploits. Go figure.

1522 England

Henry VIII showed western civilization how a real Sugar Daddy lives by initiating what will later become known as “the rotation.” Henry kept so many Sugar Babies waiting in the wings that HBO eventually gave him his own series. He had a good run but died, not from loneliness, in 1547.

1790 America

Yes indeed, George Washington was a PROLIFIC Sugar Daddy. He was also so adept at keeping his arrangements on the down low that the only things history remembers him for is chopping down the cherry tree and having wooden teeth.

George’s single greatest contribution to the Sugar Daddy lifestyle was establishing the “Don’t ask, don’t tell” policy. After a few pints he was known to quip to friends that “What Martha doesn’t know won’t hurt her.” Washington also pioneered the concept of Brown Sugar which the Rolling Stones later immortalized in their classic hit.

1876 Cambridge, Massachusetts, United States

Once again, sex is responsible for the greatest invention of the 20th century, the telephone. Alexander Graham Bell realized that if Sugar Daddies were to live the lifestyle with any degree of convenience, they were going to need a quick and easy way to contact their Sugar Babies without dispatching a loose-lipped courier or taking a high-profile carriage ride across town.

Although married to Mabel Hubbard for more than 45 years, Bell learned early on that tech geeks make the best Sugar Daddies. Legend has it that he preferred the pay-as-you-go approach for his Sugar babies as opposed to a fixed monthly budget due to the fact that he was busy fighting off more than 600 lawsuits that challenged his patent on the telephone. However, it should be noted that he later went the extra mile and invented the metal detector after one of his playmates lost her custom broach during a romp in on Mass beach.

Is the Jackie of All Trades better than the dream team of specialist Sugar Babies? Is it more enjoyable to have one Sugar Baby that can ski the black diamond slopes as well as she can fill out a Brazilian t-back, or to have a virtual arsenal of Sugar Babies, each one equipped with her own special skill set?

The answer to that question depends on the Sugar Daddy and of course, the depth of his pocket. For the average man, handling two women is like trying to drive two cars, it sounds great on paper but there is a lot of stopping and starting.

But the Sugar Daddy is anything but average. He is the master of industry, the man who made his first million before he was 30, the very same guy who got his pilot’s license just because the grouper in the Bahamas tastes better than the variety they serve in Miami.

Of course more is better. Or is it?

Lance (not his real name) has been seeing the same Sugar Baby for two years. He’s the out-of-town guy that shows up like Santa Clause when he wants to unwind. The majority of nights with his girl are spent out on the town, not clubbing till 5:00 a.m. but more along the lines of wine bars and Jazz clubs. He likes the stability and the consistency of the relationship.

Did I mention that Lance is also happily married with two children?

“I really don’t want to start talking about right and wrong here,” Lance said candidly. “All I can tell you is what works for me. Having more than one Sugar Baby would be ludicrous. Jasmine (obviously not her real name) is my solace, my getaway and someone I trust to keep our arrangement just between us.”

A lot of Sugar Daddies are like lance. They don’t need to be the king of Sugar Mountain, but they still like the arrangement scene. For the record, Lance’s marriage is rock solid by all practical definition. He has no intention of leaving his wife or leaving Jasmine (still not her real name). He’s a happy man.

Lance has a rather consistent financial arrangement with Sugar Baby. He deposits a specific amount of cash into a checking account every month and that takes care of Jasmine’s rent, phone and essentials. When he comes into town there are nights out, some shopping, but it’s a rather conservative deal.

Which brings us to Cameron. He’s got a lot of time to fill since selling his software company but now he lives his life like he’s the subject of a documentary on living like a rock star. For Cam, the cameras are always rolling.

He’s got a Hatteras that costs more than most people’s homes, has never been married (and seems to be keeping it that way at least for the foreseeable future), and has lots of friends. His only Achilles heel is boredom.

Cam keeps three Sugar Babies in rotation at all times. He’s the perfect delegator. He’s got a travel baby, a club baby and even one he keeps around because she’s a deep water certified scuba diver (really). For a stretch there was even one Sugar Baby in the mix whose sole qualification was that she was a Maxim Girl.

He’s not exactly paying the freight for all three but they all do very well. It’s a pay-as- you-go arrangement as opposed to a defined monthly budget. The girls make out with lots of news clothes, spa days, salon days, flat screen TV’s, bathroom renovations, and anything else you can think of that costs money.

“I’ll admit I am a chronic type A,” Cam Said. “Whether I’m working or playing it’s at full speed. It’s just the way I am.”

As unorthodox as either arrangement may sound, it’s all a matter of perspective. If they were to switch places even for a brief period of time, Cam would be so bored he’d start another software company and Lance’s head would just explode.

So in the end, which arrangement is better? The answer is both and neither. It all depends on the Sugar Daddy and what he’s looking for out of his arrangement (or arrangements).

Imagine you’re a beautiful shining star, luminescent and bright, sending beams of radiant light and energy out into the universe for millions of light years. You are impressive and unforgettable in every way, but an astronomer has yet to discover you. The only thing standing in your way of being noticed is that you are surrounded by tens of thousands of other bright, shiny stars.

Sugar Babies are a lot like undiscovered shining stars; they are beautiful, unique and radiant, but they are surrounded by thousands of other Sugar Babies trying to attract the attention of that perfect Sugar Daddy.

If you know what Sugar Daddies look for in Sugar Babies you’ll be able to set yourself apart from the rest of the thousands of other shining stars in the night sky.

Sugar Daddies Want Convenience

Convenience and efficiency constitute the driving force behind Sugar Daddy Dating. Remove either one of these elements and the Sugar Daddy, as well as the Sugar Baby, are back to throwing darts at a board.

Stress the convenience of your situation when corresponding with your Sugar Daddy. Use terminology like, “available for spontaneous get-togethers,” or “my bikini is already packed.” As always, be yourself and make sure your personality comes through in the process.

Sugar Daddies Crave Approval

The Sugar Daddy is usually a self-made man, nothing was ever handed to him and the reason he has attained a certain degree of success is because of innovation, dedication and concentration. Express an interest in his business pursuits without being too invasive and let him know you’re impressed.

Sure he may have made his fortune in coat hangers or tube socks, but an empire is still and empire no matter how you slice it. Give your Sugar Daddy a pat on the back, or at the very least, an understanding nod. Acknowledge his accomplishments and it will come back to you ten-fold.

Sugar Daddies Require Certain Skills in a Sugar Baby

Beauty will get your foot in the door, but the Sugar Baby who can spin more than one plate at a time ups her appeal and her longevity.

By talent we’re not referring to your ability to debug a home computer.

Sought after Sugar Baby talents include;

Keen Fashion Sense – Sugar Daddies generally don’t have time to keep up with what’s hot and what’s not in terms of fashion. Demonstrate your ability to navigate the men’s department at Barneys or Nordstrom’s and you’ve been promoted from Sugar Baby to fashion consultant. This particular skill set works on several levels because if you’re shopping for him, well, you’re not going home empty-handed either.

I-Phone Blackberry Proficiency – There is no single greater aggravation to a Sugar Daddy than the non-texting, no e-mail having, technologically illiterate Sugar Baby. The Sugar Baby/Sugar Daddy dynamic hinges on text messages, e-photos and other quick, short and sometimes erotic communications. Keep up with the latest in e-communications.

Activity Planner – Sugar Daddy’s are busy people, and without the right Sugar Baby to show them how to have a good time there is a distinct possibility they’re going to miss out on all the fun. It’s up to you, the free-spirited and vivacious Sugar Baby to know the best clubs, restaurants and romantic hideaways. Show me a Sugar Baby who knows where to rent Jet Ski’s at 11:00 p.m. on a Friday night at the Jersey Shore and I’ll show you a Sugar Baby who’s got wealthy suitors lining up around the block.

Sugar Daddies Love Independent Sugar Babies

No one likes clutchers. Sugar Daddies in particular are dynamic and independent, and since like attracts like, it only makes sense that the Sugar Baby who resides at the center of her own universe is going to get the guy. Independent Sugar Babies bring excitement, experience, charm and social skills into the equation.

Sugar Daddies, wealthy men, established men, call them what you will, have discriminating taste and are fiercely competitive. They need to know they’re getting the very best.

Plan your moves, exercise your creativity and blow them all away with your newfound Sugar Baby talents. You’ll be happy you did.