There’s a first time for everything, but letting on that you’re the rookie never helps. Experienced people, especially wealthy men, only want to associate with other experienced people. Confidence is the key, and a little role playing doesn’t hurt either.

EVERYONE acts and postures, especially in business and social situations. People act like they don’t care when they really do, they act like they’re millionaires when they can’t even pay for lunch, and they act as if they don’t have a problem in the world when they’re really knee-deep in crocodiles.

Know How To Fake It

Fake it until you make it. If you come off like a bumbling geek you run the risk of being the little girl in the school yard with pigtails and braces that no one wants to play with.

Know what people are going to say before they say it and you’ll gain a formidable advantage. Give a little thought to the questions that may come up in conversation with your rich Sugar Daddy at the formative stage of the arrangement.

In any given dynamic, people ask the same five to seven questions at the very most. In your case, there are only one or two questions you need to prepare for so as not to be exposed as a novice. For instance. . .

How long have you been a Sugar Baby?

This is a good one because it’s probably the most commonly asked. Go for something whimsical and don’t take the question too seriously.

“My whole life.”

Great answer! It sets the tone for the relationship and lets Sugar Daddy know you’re serious about being taken care of. Also try the reversal;

“How long have you been a Sugar Daddy?”

This is also a dynamite response because it gets Sugar Daddy talking about himself. Men, above all else, love to talk about themselves.

Possibly he may ask. . .

“Do you do this type of thing often?”

No problem, it’s a variation on the same question. Once again, humor works best.

“Not often enough apparently.”

You just knocked it out of the park. Sugar Daddy is riding high because you just stroked his ego and you came off smoother than Mata Hari. You’re officially running the show.

Another great tactic is to take the initiative and jump in before Sugar Daddy starts asking questions.

“So, do you seduce many women or am I special?”

You may initially think you can’t say this without laughing; it’s a line by every definition of the word. However, with just a little bit of practice it’s a lethal opener. You’re grabbing the high ground and simultaneously giving Sugar Daddy the opportunity to compliment you on how special you really are. It’s a loaded question. You already know where the conversation is going.

Take advantage of every situation to shroud yourself in mystery. Be aloof, create the persona you want to be. You’re embarking on a fresh start with a new benefactor so make the most of the opportunity.

When the Good Ship Sugar Daddy leaves the dock and an enviable arrangement has been established, give yourself a pat on the back for being a consummate professional.

Best of all, you’re only a rookie once and you’ll never be that little girl with pigtails and braces again.

We spend a great deal of time and energy figuring out new ways to lose weight, relieve stress and stay young, but through this forest of self examination we’ve lost sight of the obvious. People who are happy generally don’t stress about anything, including their weight, and have a tendency to look and feel younger than those who forgot how to be a little wild.

The Sugar Daddy has savoir-faire
His motto: Laissez les bons temps rouler

Being frivolous is more productive than one might think. Show me the guy having the most fun and I’ll show you the guy making the most money. Show me the guy making the most money and I’ll show you the quintessential Sugar Daddy.

The relaxed and charming Sugar Daddy is going to have a much more satisfying life than the stodgy, burned out, chain smoking executive. He’s the fun-loving fringe player who knows the importance of playtime. The Sugar Daddy weaves a special charisma and abundant enthusiasm throughout the entire fabric of his existence.

If you ask him what his secret is, and you’re lucky enough for him to tell you, he’ll probably say something like “it’s just a matter of being able to let go at will.” The Sugar Daddy knows this life lesson well, and lives by the credo of “let the good times roll.”

People, especially Sugar Babies, are attracted to the Sugar Daddy because his self-assured manner is contagious. He’s the guy with a million great stories, the man everyone wants to know or be, and the guy you can never quite figure out no matter how long you’ve known him. He’s the enigma, the “Go-To-Guy” when the seas get rough, and the man who never forgets the importance of having fun.

He’s successful because he is not driven by success. He is instead motivated by the many exciting and enjoyable things that success brings.

If the Sugar Daddy is not living on the edge he’s just not living. In the same fashion that David Carradine walked the earth in Kung Fu, the greatest television show ever made, the Sugar Daddy walks the earth as well, reaching out to the next Sugar Baby, hoping that his next leap will be the one that brings him home (sorry, that’s actually Quantum Leap).

There isn’t a movie he hasn’t seen, a book he hasn’t read or an idea you’re having that he hasn’t already had. When everyone else at the bar is talking about writing a screenplay, starting a new company, or going spear fishing in the Bahamas, he’s actually doing it.

The Sugar Daddy is a risk taker, but he’s not reckless. He’s a gym enthusiast, but he still respects a good cigar. When others are seeking knowledge he is gathering wisdom.

The Sugar Daddy’s final frontier of self-expression and personal satisfaction hinges on his ability to attract the adoration and unbridled affection of the Sugar Baby. He wants to share his wealth, experience and philosophy with an affectionate and receptive female vessel.

The Sugar Baby’s incompleteness is what makes the Sugar Daddy complete.

You’re probably familiar with the terms Sugar Daddy, Sugar Baby, Sugar Mommy and Sugar Pup, but just what is a Sugar Angel?

We’re glad you asked.

A Sugar Angel is a full-time Sugar Baby, but one that brings a lot more to the table than just breathtaking beauty. She is poised, intelligent and has star power. She’s the type of woman you can count on to get you on “The List” at the hottest nightclub in Manhattan, to schmooze your law partners into intoxicated trances, and to turn every head, male or female, when she walks into the room.

The Sugar Angel

Sugar Angels are indeed a rare breed. They take pride in their chosen profession and work to stay ahead of the game. She can usually speak more than one language, reads the WSJ on the elliptical trainer every morning without fail, and attends Pilate’s classes with the dedication of an Olympic athlete.

The Sugar Angel can tell the difference between a Harry Winston and a cubic zirconia from a block away. She can confidently order from a wine list, even if it’s in Italian, and her wardrobe is so extensive that no one alive has ever seen her wear the same thing twice.

Her past is mysterious and she is adept at keeping her personal life private, but she is consistent, dependable and a consummate professional. She is meticulous and punctual without sacrificing passion for life.

The Sugar Angel has been to the Cannes Film Festival more than once and is always ready to tell you about her last trip to Vail. She seems to know everyone no matter where she goes and makes loyal friends with a single glance of her piercing blue eyes. You can’t help but love her. Her charms cannot be resisted.

The Sugar Angel’s looks are flawless, from her perfect face down to her always pedied feet, but hold onto your hats gentlemen; she definitely doesn’t come cheap.

If you don’t have a budget of at least $20,000 a month, don’t bother pushing the “send” key on that next e-mail. She takes you seriously so take her seriously. However, for the man fortunate enough to afford the very best, there is no substitute for the Sugar Angel. She is the limited edition Mercedes of the Sugar Daddy dating scene.

Oh, and one last thing, she never negotiates.